Improving
Your Bedroom Skills - Foreplay Tips to
Maximize Results
If
you are happy living with a succession
of one night stands, then your sexual
technique, and in particular,
foreplay, has probably never been an
issue for you. However if you really
would like to keep your lady for the
second night and beyond, it would pay
to read these simple tips on the art
of foreplay.
It has to be
said. Foreplay is a 'woman's thing'.
When feminism burst onto the scene and
women all over the world realized they
could have a say in their own sexual
pleasure - they wanted, no, demanded,
foreplay. For the guy who had been
happy for years with the 'climb on,
pump, pump and roll off' technique,
here was a whole new avenue of
adventure he was not sure he even
wanted to explore.
But
women are watching "Opera', they
are reading the likes of 'Cleo'
magazine and similar, and they know
they are entitled to lovingly drawn
out orgasms, and they are expecting
you to come up with the goods. Its
really not that hard, it can be a lot
of fun, and believe it or not, your
whole sex drive can improve
tremendously. So read on.
What is
foreplay? Quite simply put it is the
acts and motions a person goes through
with his partner, before intercourse.
The best way to describe this is to
take you through a typical example.
You
are in the bedroom kissing. Unless you
have just come back from three months on
an oil rig, do this slowly. Part of the
whole aspect of foreplay is the TIME you
spend. Now don't just kiss the lips.
There is a whole body there, just
waiting to be explored. Kiss all around
her face, her hands, her neck and down
the top part of her chest. Remove
clothing (slowly) as it gets in your
way. And listen to her, watch her
response. You will find places she
likes, so pay a bit more attention to
those areas. You can kiss, suck and
nibble your way all around her body.
Don't just dive for the 'normal' bits
(see the article on women's erogenous
zones), but play about a bit.
Did
you know that behind the knees is an
incredibly sexy spot? Or on the tail
bone on the base of a women's back?
Try it, you will be surprised.
Another form
of 'foreplay in disguise' is the
massage. Lower the lighting, put on
some soft mood music and offer to give
your partner a loving massage. Don't
worry if you have never done it before
there are only a few simple moves to
remember.
1. Try and use
both your hands softly, moving in a
smallish circular motion.
2. The best
place to start is with your partner on
their back, and start from the base of
the feet, moving up slowly.
3. When you
are doing the back just make a point
of not actually pressing on the spine.
There are a set of muscles up each
side of the bones which can be
massaged, to great delight.
4. Do not look
at this as hard work. While you are
massaging enjoy your partners body.
Pay close attention to the inner
thighs, the buttocks, and the
underneath area of the arms ( very
close to the chest area here).
Massaging is a
great way of relieving the stress of a
hard day of work, breaking the ice if
you are with somebody new, or simply
showing appreciation for your partner.
It is also an extremely sensual
experience.
Whatever it is
you decide to try, if you remember the
key element of taking your time, the
passions will rise and the climax for
both of you will be tremendous - well
worth the effort.
Enjoy. |
